Tuesday, November 22, 2011

What is the best advice you've ever given to someone about to get married?

Or just recently married?What is the best advice you've ever given to someone about to get married?
Think through before getting yourself into. This is a long term commitment. Ask yourself if you're willing to give up your freedom. Will you always be there when your spouse needs you?. You will share your life with someone 24 a/day for the rest of your life. Will you be faithful to her no matter how much temptation you face each day? If your answers are yes then go ahead and get married. If you have just a little doubt, don't because that gut feelings are always right.What is the best advice you've ever given to someone about to get married?
always say good night and i love you cause you will never know when it will be the last time you say it and you don't want to regret not saying it!
Live everyday as if it were the first time that you met.


Never at any time have any regrets.


Always respect each other in what ever you do.


Let no other person come between you two.


If ever I can give you some advice.


Always be willing to sacrifice.
Live together for a while - especially before having children. Remember what made you choose - always put yourself in the others' shoes - always listen carefully not only to what's said or done, but the message underneath it - think before you speak - but always say what's on your mind, always calmly - and think again before you respond to the reply - discuss everything (and take care when the other won't!) - never presume expectations on your part, but always try to identify the others' - be grateful, caring, kind and strong, and try to understand if you don't get the same in return. And if things go wrong, and discussion doesn't fix it, get help; and if that doesn't work, go (Life's too Short).
dont mess around with other women


remember that sometimes you will get on each others nerves like crazy


beware of the pms monster


dont forget to look into each others eyes. people sometimes forget to do that when they get caught up in life


try to tell her she looks beautiful often and when you get caught checking out other women, make sure you tell her shes way hotter than that other chick
DON'T DO IT...lol..please!!!
Both parties need to be committed not just to each other but to the institution of marriage itself. Best wishes to you.
Never go to bed angry
To those contemplating marrige: Wait three years and you will get over it.


To newlyweds: Be willing to give 100%, and hope your partner only needs 50%.
Don't.
This it is until death do you part which means you have to work out every problem and can never use the D word (divorce) for that is not an option. Marriage is like a roller coaster with lots of ups and downs, twists and turns, but the longer the ride the better the fun. Also love changes through out the marriage and that is OK, it only gets better with time.
I see you asked so many questions. Seems to me that you're not ready to get married. Be honest with yourself.
Make sure the two of you meet each other's needs, and have the desire and energy to work things through when times get tough. There is no such thing as a perfect couple or marriage, and good marriages takes work. Read ';Lies At The Alter: The Truth About Great Marriages'; by Robin L. Smith.
Congratulations
Run, run like your hair is on fire!!!
WAIT!! Wait for at least three years of knowing one another, make sure you've either gone to a premarital class via church or other, because all those questions you go over are important. Money, sex, kids, religion, who will take care of the kids, prenuptial agreement? - make sure you leave no rock unturned. And make sure you hit some hard times together, see how the other person responds to stress, do they team up with you- do they freak out, etc.
RUN!!!!!!!!!
lmao...be more than sure...really sure...and good luck!!!
Make sure you take lots of Xanax on your wedding day so you don't get nervous and if it doesn't work out you can say you were under the influence of benzodiazapines and your marriage will be null and void, saving you lots in divorce and annulment expenses.





Oh, and never go to bed angry.


Hold hands,


Make out,


Go on dates (with each other)
..if he is about toget married i will ask him to truly ask himself if he is getting married because of his love to the other person or is it just because of lust..love will cherish but lust will perished the second day of marriage..if he is already married..then congratulations,take good care of your wife and all the best.pray to God always .
You definitely will be officially stripped of your title Alpha Mucho Macho.
Listen to your gut....don't marry someone for security or money or looks.....marry the person that takes your breath away.....remember after the wedding, your spouse comes first now in your life....not your mom and dad or friends, etc. Be on their side if your family somehow gives them a hard time....and don't forget, you can never tell someone you love them too many times. Every day and every night should start and end with a passionate kiss.....
Get a good lawyer and make sure you have a prenup!!!
Make you sister-in-laws your best friend and confidante. Make your mother-in-law your trusted advisor. Return their brother or son to them after marriage. Once the threat of loosing him is gone, they will throw him back to you to enjoy for the rest of your lives. This is assuming that you are the wife.
Pick your battles wisely.
ALWAYS REKINDLE THE LOVE TO YOUR PARTNER.......
Follow the Golden Rule. Treat your spouse how you want to be treated.





Make sure you are on the same page as far as money goes and boundaries for in-laws.





Communication is very important!
Respect each other, compliment each other and no matter what life deals you, remember the love you both have for the other - and - don't sweat the small stuff; it doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things.

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