Serious Question: Can I get some advice here?

My friend is a little confused and I can't find the right words for him. He has been really good friends with this girl named Ash for a long time. She used to be his ex's best friend until she got stabbed in the back.(not physically) Back in February '09 Ash's fiance died from cancer. Now, 2 months later, she is expressing interest in my friend. They have confirmed to eachother that they like one another, but she wants to keep it quiet for a while because she doesn't think people are ready to accept her moving on so soon. Do you think Ash is using him to fill a void for now, or will they eventually become a public couple?Serious Question: Can I get some advice here?
Well, she was engaged, and her fiance died from cancer and it's ONLY been 2 months. Whatever is going on now iwith her and your friend will be a rebound, especially since she's expressing interest so soon after that fact.





So either she 1. never cared about her fiance and really has no issue with moving on so quickly, or 2. she really is deeply wounded and she's looking for something to ease her pain and she's masking it in this new relationship.





I don't doubt that she doesn't have interest in your friend, but her emotional pain from the death of her fiance is not going to go away in two months. It can take quite awhile for that to heal.Serious Question: Can I get some advice here?
i htink they should try it...
I must say...this is a tough one. Two months is not alot of time to heal from losing someone. So it would be understandable that your friend would be wondering if he was a rebound case. She could be lonely and just wanting to fill a void.





Or it could be the opposite, she could of not had strong enough feelings for this guy who passed away, that's why it's easy for her to move on. She could of said yes to his proposal to ease his mind and for him to pass peacefully.





The only person that truly knows how Ash feels....is Ash. You said that the two of them confirmed their feelings for each other...so I would tell your friend that he needs to go with his gut. Ask him if he feels that her feelings for him are geniune. There are no guarantees in life. He could end up hurt. But he could also end up happy. He needs to decide whether it's worth taking a chance. Sorry i couldn't be more help.