Thursday, July 29, 2010

I had a miscarriage on Monday. I am terrified to get pregnant again. Any advice?

I had a miscarriage on Monday. I was 5 weeks. My husband and I tried to get pregnant exactly once before getting our BFP. Does that mean that we will easily get pregnant again? I am terrified that we will always miscarry. Any advice? We both really want kids. We are both 28. I did not have a D%26amp;C as the Dr. said it wasn't necessary. Any advice on whether or not we could still get pregnant easily? And on being terrified to have another miscarriage? Thanks!I had a miscarriage on Monday. I am terrified to get pregnant again. Any advice?
This happened to my daughter in law and it was terrible. We felt like this was a death because we do believe this is a baby and not a fetus.


I must tell you that the apple of my eye is now 16 and a half months now-she did conceive again with a healthy and happy boy.


The most important thing for you is when you do expect again and you will-you follow your doctor's orders only and need be ask to see a fertility specialist that may be able to guide you better for a healthy pregnancy.


Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I had a miscarriage on Monday. I am terrified to get pregnant again. Any advice?
First, let me say I'm sorry for your loss. Next, rest assured, many women have miscarriages and go on to have healthy children. I think the real key is to get comfortable with a good OB/GYN who can work with you and communicates well. Since you easily got pregnant, you are probably very fertile and won't have difficulty getting pregnant again. Again, talk to your dr. about your concerns. Usually, there's no ';reason'; to pinpoint a miscarriage. it's just nature and God's way of purging. Please, continue to talk to your dr. and don't worry!
i had a miscarriage on mother's day this year...i know how you feel, however i was 6 weeks and not planning on having a baby...but i am now pregnant again now 9 weeks and sooo happy...i got pregnant before even having a period..i am still nervous about having an other miscarriage, i was trying to not get my hopes up but thats impossible! so it is possible to get pregnant again, just keep trying and don't stress...


**sticky dust to you!!**
Oh i am so sorry. But remember you shall see that special miracle again in heaven! Just pray about it. If god wants you to have a baby, he will give it to you. I will pray that you get another child. My aunt had the samething happen. I am a guy, so i won't ever have kids, like carry one and stuff, but would love to have, or be parent to, one someday. Just pray and god will give!
I had a miscarriage November of last year my baby stoped growing at 5weeks.. And now I'm 4months pregnant.. That you had one doesn't mean it'll happen again.. Good Luck to you and your Hubby.. And Give yourself some time to heal both emotionally and physically.. My doctor made us wait 3 months to try again maybe you should do the same..
Talk to your doctor and tell him/her about your worries, your chances of carrying a baby to term or having a miscarriage again. Also, ask if ever you do get pregnant, what can you do to prevent from miscarrying again. I wish you the best of luck!
Look many, many of us had a miscarriage and went on to have healthy babies. Most likely you will too. I am sorry you had this happen but please realize it happens quite often and most women do go on to have children.
I'm so very sorry about your loss. I had a mc myself about 9 months ago at almost 10 weeks and it was very sad. About one in every 5 pregnancies end in miscarriage so its quite common. It does not usually mean you will continue to have miscarriages. I have 2 healthy boys and then I had a mc after my second was born. I am completely confident that I will be able to get pregnant a 4th time and have a normal healthy pregnancy still. I know you may feel worried about having another miscarriage, but you probably won't. You will most likely go on to have a pefectly normal and healthy pregnancy still. There are many reasons for having a miscarriage and usually its simply because the baby was not developing normally. Sometimes when the baby is developing, the chromosomes or something else will fail to develop correctly and your body will naturally miscarry in order to start over fresh again with a pregnancy that will develop normally. You didn't do anything wrong. You need to wait at least one period before trying again. After you've had at least one period again, you should be okay to try again and its okay to feel nervous, but just remember, MANY women have at least one miscarriage in their life and still go on to have normal pregnancies. Good luck!

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