Read a book called ';Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus';
There is a section in it about men being ';Mr. Fix it.'; When we see something that is a ';problem'; in our minds we naturally tend to want to fix it. Thats just how a lot of guys are.
I have to ask if maybe you are doing something that makes him think you need his help? Do you talk to him about your problems a lot or complain to him about things? Typically guys don't just offer up advice unless asked...unlike women who just give advice freely even when its unwelcome :) Sorry girls but its true.Why do men always have to give women advice?Why can't they just let us get things together on our own?
I think that I can see why people are always telling you to GROW UP!!
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I think that I can see why people are always telling you to GROW UP!!
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I think that I can see why people are always telling you to GROW UP!!
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In my life have learned that women, most of the time, just want us (men) to listen to them not fix the problem. But the nature of a man is we talk about things with someone only if we are looking for help with a solution. So a women is merely venting and a man is seeing this venting as asking for a solution. Do agree with the poster the say read men are from mars women are from venus. Its just the way men and women are wired and even though I know that my wife might be merely venting still catch myself trying to solve the problem.
Men are fixers. Women like to complain or talk about something, and all we want to do is get it off our chest and talk about it.
Men think, if we brought it up, we expect them to fix it.
Sometimes I have to just bite my tongue about bringing certain things up, because I know I will get some kind of 'solution' to my problem.
Yes, that is it. Men are fixers. As women we aren't always looking for a solution. We just want someone to listen. Sometimes stating the problem out loud is the only solution we need. It makes us feel better to vent and get it off our chests, and boy, can it be irritating to have the person you are telling it to try to come up with ideas to fix it. Sound's crazy...I know.
Men are raised, and its in our DNA, to solve problems and fix things. When we see a woman that we love or care about we want to make it all better for them.
What we dont realize is that you dont want that help or you will specifically ask for it. Otherwise you are just venting.
Ahh the subtle differences between men and women.
We all grow at our own pace acording to our enviroment and individual personalities and if he is more mature than u in some areas that is normal, maybe u are more advanced in others. Take a good look at the situation. Is he bossy, or needy.
%26amp; you're asking us for advice? ;)
Us men just like to feel superior. :p
Girls or Women usually seek the advise of a boy or man. They usually need to be steered toward the best course of action.
Women don't know what's best for them. They operate soley off of emotion and it always ends up getting them hurt. Men are more logical and can give them sound advice.
well, girls are always complaining to guys about every stupid little thing, guys just assume you need advice.
why else would girls keep talking and talking and talking and talking....
Because guys think they are the smartest thing since sliced bread. Which is true, they are about as smart as sliced bread. lol.
For the same reason that women are always calling men ';immature'; and telling us how to live our lives.
the same reason women give unwanted advice i suppose
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Let me give you a piece of advice... you both need to grow up
Chuck is right.
will in his eyes your immature anyways!
thats just how some guys are they tell things that you don't want to know or hear
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