When sex goes off the boil whats your advice to get it back?

i love my girl very much, but i have been suffering from depression and the tablets i take have somewhat knocked my libido. i would like to rekindle the spark though am not sure how to go about it. im a gay woman who has been with my partner for 8years. * please no stupid answers.*When sex goes off the boil whats your advice to get it back?
Well anti depressants suppress your sex drive. Like the first dude said you could come of the tablets but, then again you wouldn't be taking them if they weren't necessary. You could try to exercise a little more to bring your mood up. Also try new things in the bedroom. Maybe a romantic dinner and you could role play, you know where you act like its the first date etc? Maybe look for alternatives to taking anti depressants. As this s probably one of the key factors to your low sex drive.When sex goes off the boil whats your advice to get it back?
I had the same problem when I started taking depression meds. They counteracted that with a drug called Busparone for anxiety.It worked for me anyways.............
8 years?





You want that spark then you need to move on. Sorry to bring the bad news.





People werent designed to find the same partner attractive indefinately.
try something new :)


get on the internet and find some ideas.


even something as simple as some sexy lingerie or a new 'toy' could help get that spark back into your sex life :)





xx
my advice would be to stop taking the tablets. not to be a stupid answer but because i've heard that depression drugs are nothing you want to mess with..they can cause a lot of severe problems u dont even know about till later on.
I would take it a day at a time, dont rush things.


Eight years is a long time !!
You have to find your spark, find the thing that initially attracted you to you lover and hold on to it. We all fight periods of ';staleness'; in our relationships, the one's who will be together forever are the ones that rekindle their own flames. For me dating again, truly going on dates for the enjoyment of it helped. For others spending more time apart allows them to enjoy each others company more.
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