My best friend sleeps around and partys way too much- it is starting to get dangerous the way she trusts every man she meets, and acts as if she ALWAYS needs a man by her side.What advice should I give my best friend- I am worried she will get hurt, or worse!?
Tell her that you care for her and don't want to see her hurt herself like this. Tell her in a patient and reasonable way(not harsh) that partying and sleeping around won't solve her problems. But most importantly be there for her whenever she needs you and hopefully someday she'll understand.What advice should I give my best friend- I am worried she will get hurt, or worse!?
Sit her down, just the two of you and tell her very gently that your worried about her. She may get annoyed or deffensive, but don't let that get you down. Thats how most people react to being confronted, but in the long run she will thank you. Just please be gentle, I can not stress that enough.
i think you should tell her how you feel...she might listen then again she might not. but either way she really needs a friend. BUT being a friend doesn't mean that you need to go to these parties and do the things she does maybe if she sees that you are there for her but don't agree to do the things she does it might open her eyes a little!
her heart might be broken. Did any of her family members leave or die, that were important to her? that might be the reason then. If not then try talking to her, and help her out baby steps.
you can talk to her tell her how you feel but i doubt she'll listen she must have very low self esteem to put herself in those positions but just be there for her whenever she needs you thats the best you can do
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