Can i please get some advice. this is one of those few questions where i actually need opinions. please!?

Well I'm 14 and I have had a crush on this guy for about a year now. We flirt quite a bit and have fun together. We write stupid notes back and forth and alwasy walk to calsses together. The last day of school was a few days ago and he wrote his number in my year book and a sweet little note. I really want to go out with him but im nervous. Should I call him and ask him out or is that his job. And do you guys think he'll say yes. There is also another delema his best friend has a HUGE crush on me (he asked me out 3 times) and i said no all of those times. I asked him if he knew who the guy i liked (hes best frined) liked and he said Jaklyn (not me) and so i really dont know if i should believe him or if i should ask out the guy i like. Opinions will be greatly appreciated thanks so much!Can i please get some advice. this is one of those few questions where i actually need opinions. please!?
Sweetie listen, i would say go with your heart but that's a bit old fashioned. First things first, don't call him at his job to ask him any questions like that. it qould only complicate things and make hom feel a bit uncomfortable. Call him at home if you have then number, stat a casual conversation about anything. Then you lead the conversation into where you want it. That is finding out if he likes you ar someone else. Don;t rush into the conversation, just let it flow. If he's a good friend you wouldn't want to do anything that would hurt that friendship. If he likes you you can work from there. if he says he likes someone else, it will hurt but know that if he values your friendship..most likely he'll turn to you if somethings wrong. Remember friendships are a dime a dozen but friendships are forever. Who knows this friendship may be more. I do hope this helps.Can i please get some advice. this is one of those few questions where i actually need opinions. please!?
YES give him a call!!! this is the 21st century, girls ask guys out all the time. If he wrote his # down he is expecting and wanting you to call.
Call him when your bored during the summer it will work out.


After talking to him a bit you will know what to do.
u can call up your crush and ask if u can get together... meantime, there's no harm going our with the other guy for a friendly date... u should not close your doors to other people until you're committed to somebody :-)
well i think its the guy job so just call him keep in touch and see where that goes (wat did the note say I think you should e mail me cause a similar thing is going on with me)
You are experiencing what some people call ';life';





You are not going to get answers on this level that will help you much as every situation is different.





Honestly? Ask the guy you like if he fancies going out some time. If he says yes, go with that... if he says no, then you know where you stand and can move on. You are 14, don't stress it too much, you have a lot of time. Concentrate on yourself and doing what you like and having friends. Guys want to be with a girl who is happy and busy etc...





Good luck
don't ask friends, yours or his, their opinions about your love life. If you like someone, deal direct and don't even tell your friends who you like and don't ask the friends of those you like their opinions.





I say call him and chit-chat with him and see what's up. You don't have to ask him out but maybe he'll ask you if you are brave enough to call.
Call him. his friend might be lying to put you off. The worst he can say is no to yopu and i don't think he'll do that if you have this friendship going on. good luck!
For one, it's the 21st century and girls are now allowed to ask guys out. (Although sometimes I do wish it were otherwise. ;) ) If he left you a sweet note and his number on your yearbook, that's probably his way of hinting that you should call him. It's absolutely alright that you are nervous. Just call him up, and talk for a while. He might ask you out, or you could casually suggest that you guys do something together.





Regarding his best friend. You shouldn't be forced to go out with him if you don't want to and don't like him. He should have gotten the idea that you don't like him by now. Also, I probably wouldn't take what he said to heart.





Best of luck!
hey you really should call this guys up...people say the guy should call the girl...but i call my boyfriend all the time because he is scared to call my house and wants me to call whenever it is convient....so i think you should call the guy up and ask him if he wants to hang out.....i think your so called best guy friend just ants to get under your skin...so give it a go and if he says no then hey at least you tried...but i think he will say yes....Good Luck Girl
You could ask him, but don't be disappointed if he doesn't answer you, or if he doesn't go out with you. Guys just like to flirt, and it doesn't mean as much to them as it does to you. Good luck.
listen it's anyones' job to ask someone out. and besides maybe he does like u more then u think he might. besides that *** hole friend of his probably said no because he's just jealous cuz he can't have you.





my advice:


follow your heart and not your brain on this one. if he says no then use your brain other wise let your hart do the walkn' and the talkn'!!





hope this helps you out!!!
WOW! DRAMA! ok well, even tho u like this guy, it may get in btween of his frendship w/ his frendship. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS!

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