Monday, August 23, 2010

Best advice for a couple who plans to get married...?

let's hear it. any tips, advice, suggestions for a successful relationship.


(besides ';dont do it';)


thanks!Best advice for a couple who plans to get married...?
be honest and true to each other as well as your self. stand strong in your faith and always put each other first. make sure your bride knows your arms will always be a safe haven for her.


always always tell each other 'i love you.'


learn the meaning of compromise and realize marriage is all about that. remember to hold hands every time you go out! say please and thank you - being married doesn't mean taking each other for granted.


remember sex doesn't start when you go to bed, its an all day thing - help with the dishes after dinner, give her a hug for no reason, every once in awhile tell her how pretty she is, or how cute she looks in that outfit. bring home a flower once in awhile, or a whole bouquet, always hold the door open for her and help her carry in the groceries. run a bath for her when shes not feeling great.


you'll be surprised at how all those little things you do through the day or the week add up to a lot of love. just as all those snide little sarcastic jokey comments add up to real resentment!


just be good and kind and sweet - every action has a reaction - so make sure its all good!


Best advice for a couple who plans to get married...?
I agree with communication, it is so very important.





I would like to add to remain friends and never stop having dates together.





Don't forget all the little things that just make each other happy because those tend to be the most special.





It seems like once a couple is married they get so comfortable with each other they forget to appreciate why they feel in love to begin with.



Besides don't do it? PLEASE don't do it? Haha....





I kid, I kid.....





Um.....I would say the best thing I would tell a couple about to get married is never stop communicating. Keeping communication open can help in every situation you may have, good or bad. If you stop talking to each other things get built up and have a tendancy to make issues that may be trivial into serious problems and the serious problems into disasters.





So talk....lots. Keep an open mind. Oh! And lots of sex! Seriously...the second a dry spell happens the crabbier you will both get!!





Good luck!!!
Respect each other.





If you don't have mutual respect than nothing else matters. Respect shows in your communication, in your treatment of each other, and in the way you work together to solve your problems. When you get angry and unhappy, it is easy to act disrespectful - learn to recognize this and take a step back.
NEVER go to bed angry. that's is the BEST one I can think of. becaue you don't sleep well and you wake up in the morning bitter and resentfull at each other. solving problems right away and going to bed cuddling leads to a happy loving morning....and to some make up s*x if you're lucky =)

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