well,
my parents went away for a few weeks. during that time i had 6 people over, with a few drinks. it was small and not a massive out of control party or anything. one of my friends who lives a few houses down the road from me has a very strict mother, unfortunately. She did not know that my parents were away, and was talking to another incredibly strict woman who told her they weren't there. now they will definitely tell my parents, and i dont know what to do...
any advice? im 16 btw.Ok, im dead. got any advice to get me out of this awful situation?
Deal with it you shouldn't of had the party.Ok, im dead. got any advice to get me out of this awful situation?
I will like you to tell your parent the truth on what had happen, and I am sure you will have to get the rap.
But explain nicely your intention was a small gathering but just drank some small amount of light drinks. Knowing not a good ideal but it was done.
Talk to them that you have the intention to be honest in informing them and not wanting to hide away or making up story to escape.
Every boys love adventure and sometime it will gone off the mark but show to your parent that you are aware of some unexpected event may occur but you are ready to accommodate.
I think it is unrealistic of them to think you would not pull something like this or worse. You are 16 and home alone for weeks! It is really thier own fault. Atleast you did not destroy anything! My parents went out of time once and I had a party and someone almost caught the christmas tree on fire. The floor and wall and front door were burning with gasoline on them! I somehow managed to trim all the burnt carpet and scrub the wall and they never found out. That was 10 years ago! So it could be so much worse! Just like bring up that you had some friends over like it's no big deal and you can play the I did not know I was doing anything wrong card. You won't be in that much trouble more than likely. GOod luck.
oh this is really sucked up, but what I can can say is that dont say anything about this to your parents, that's will prove to be a costly mistake, but just of now be as you were before that party took place when your parents were there. Whether your parents come to know about this today or any day they can't accept what has happened. say if this happens if your parents never come to know about the party!!!!!! so, just don't worry be happy.
Ive been there a couple times. parents were out of town and threw these massive parties sometimes in the upwards of 200 people. but try as i must to clean up my parents found out...all I can say is you gotta deal with the consequences. Trust me in time youll be back with your friends laughing about those fun times.
Just cop it, and maybe try to reasonably talk to your parents about it like an adult (no yelling lol) this will make them see your growing up, try to explain your dside of the story and tell them exactly how it was admitting where yuo went wrong too. Take the whole thing as a learning experience.
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Ok you'll have to do one of three things the first option is to kill them the second one Let them tell your parents it wasnt a big party who gives a sh*t and the last one is to blackmail them , even very strict parents have deep dark secrets.
say it was a get together and that u are a responsible girl and nothing went out of hand
if the nosy mothers want to interfere into ur life ask then on what basis? did anything even happen? was there cops involved..? EXACTLY! so tell ur parents to trust you evidently nothing even went wrong!
ooooh ooooh!!!
this always happened to me when i was younger (Im 21 now and my parents still dont like me havin house parties haha)
but theyll get over it trust me...as long as nothin was broken, stolen and ya didnt end up in a and e gttin ur stomach pumped its all good...and if they get really mad just tell them that and theyll appreciate it abit more lol
Tell your parents before they do. It will show that you understand that you made a mistake (even if you dont think you did, it will give them that impression) and will help to reinstate some of the trust that your parents will lose in you. Your parents are going to find out anyway. You will be much better off if you tell them yourself.
Hmm....well be truthful if u have the guts or else simply Lie ! ;)
Tell ur parents that it had been sometime since u guys had some leisure so u all planned a study %26amp; gossip session. You see, usually studies get u out off anything when it comes to strict parents. B-)
Tell them group study helped u to understand something better...and ur out of the mess. ;)
Good Luck ! =]*
I'm sorry but if their very strict adults, a 16 year old that threw a party can't really do anything about it.... maybe try to answer the phone/door when they come around/call, and say your parents aren't home? I don't know what else to do, sorry. Good luck
when your parents come back before they find out, just make everything look perfect and let them no oh while u were gone i had this kid over and this kid over and let them no but make it sound better then what you think they strict parents would say to them, tell them before they find out the hard way
tell them you went out of town also, and you had no idea that your friends could do this to you...OR them....remember, position you and your parents in the same light. you're both victims....right? ;)
Just tell your parents the truth if they ask you. Lying only makes things worse.
Man and make sure you cleaned everything up but be ready for a punishment so BAAAAD
When she tells your parents, just be like yeah I had a couple friends down, no biggie. Shouldn't care much
suck it up and deal with the consequences...that's how you grow up
whatever comes, face it fearlessly)
tell them that it wasn't a party and u were just studying..lmaaooo....works every time XD
Ohhhh my God you are screwed.. ahhah no I am kidding...Tell them that u judge it as good decision so they have to trust your decisions..
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